There are specific terms, phrases and information that need to be on various documents in an international adoption dossier. There’s this paper from that doctor and this letter from that employer. Each person is given the sample of what is needed for the dossier to be accepted by the adoption officials in the other country. But people decide to edit those forms and take things away or add things that don’t matter. Why can’t people JUST do what needs to be done to help us complete our adoption? Why does every piece of paper need to be a fight? I get SO tired of having to deal with everyone else’s issues about this. Why do people who say they want to help make things so difficult?